If a Thanksgiving feast ‘table’ can walk a 5K, so can you!
“Gratitude bestows reverence, allowing us to encounter everyday epiphanies, those transcendent moments of awe that change forever how we experience life and the world.” — John Milton
Thanksgiving is more than feasting with family and friends; it is the perfect way to express gratitude.
On a crisp and clear Thanksgiving morning, I ran a 5K race at Run To Feed The Hungry in Sacramento, CA, which organizers call the largest turkey trot in the country. This race, which broke all previous records this year with 31,285 participants running and walking, has become a tradition for me. My daughter joined me this year, which made me grateful for the gift of movement and family time together.
As we walked towards the start line, we were delighted to see one of the most creative holiday outfits. To my great surprise, the lovely lady dressed in the festive Thanksgiving table outfit was one of my tennis friends.
Her story and Thanksgiving tradition started in 1999 when Heather participated in her first Run To Feed The Hungry race and wore a fancy turkey hat. From there, she kept adding to her outfit until it became the elaborate and festive table she carried joyfully during her 5K yearly walks.
Heather took pictures with us and everyone else who wanted a memorable memory. She truly brightened people’s day with her presence, smile, and kindness.
At the end of another Thanksgiving Day spent with my family and friends, I smiled and came up with one word of gratitude: movement.
If my friend Heather walked a 5K dressed as a table, imagine what your body can do!
Final takeaways:
Creating traditions around holidays is a fun way to celebrate, especially when we move together and are active.
Holidays can be stressful, especially when it comes to entertaining guests, but why not participate in a turkey run the morning of the holiday to help raise money for organizations like Sacramento Food Bank and Family Services, which receive all the proceeds from the race?
We can all channel Heather’s fun and creativity by finding ways to warm people’s souls and hearts daily — no special events or holidays are needed.
Let’s enjoy the wonders of our bodies, which move much better when we practice walking, running, or any other sports we enjoy.
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“I have become much more comfortable dwelling in a world where we’re not sure what’s coming. I can wake up every day and prepare as if I’ll be at the Olympic Trials this summer, but if that doesn’t come to pass, I can regroup and reset my sight lines.”Kim Conley
Kim Conley doing a poised and focused track workout.
Are you hopeful for a brighter 2021? Then follow the wise, down-to-earth, and inspiring advice from Kim Conley, United States Olympic runner, who represented our country eight times, including at the 2012 and 2016 Olympic games, and hoping to represent again this year at the Tokyo Olympic games. As Conley pointed out, we can be better prepared for 2021, if we follow three important tips and apply them to our lives:
Becoming more comfortable with uncertainty.
Being prepared and working hard every single day, as if we were going to the Olympic games, which to me, equates to early preparation prevents poor performance in everything we do, or as Sun Tzu said “every battle is won before it is fought.”
Regrouping when things get canceled, or don’t go our way, and thus be ready for the next battle.
Kim Conley sees 2021 as motivating, helping her stay on task with her training. When the Olympics were postponed and there were no races on the calendar, Conley enjoyed running and exploring the trails around Flagstaff, even though she lacked the normal structure to a training routine targeted to peak performance. After being able to do some racing in the second half of the year, Conley concedes that even if the major global events won’t happen, there will still be micro meets for which she wants to be prepared. For now, Conley is acting as if the Olympics will take place and preparing for the Olympic Trials in June. She will be racing a 10,000m in Austin, Texas at the end of February as an attempt at the Olympic standard, and in order to achieve these big goals, Conley has embraced some of the lessons that 2020 has taught her, such as:
Be adaptable to life’s swift changes in a way that she has never been before.
Be prepared to be disappointed, such as a race being canceled at the last minute, which so many of us have experienced last year, but maybe did not embrace life’s disillusionment with the same equanimity and serenity as Conley.
Be open to change and welcome it as a catalyst towards personal growth. For instance, one of the things that Conley changed in her training was to move to Flagstaff permanently in the middle of 2020, and thus train at altitude full time. Additionally, Conley stopped going to the gym, but instead, she uses the developed at-home strength routine based primarily around the KBox Trainer by Exxentric.
Running around Flagstaff
And if you are wondering what a day in the life of an Olympic runner looks like, Conley was kind to give us an example of a heavy training day from the month of January:
Wake up ~8am
Breakfast of steel cut oats with collagen mixed in and coffee.
~9am Prehab: I do a series of foot strengthening exercises (this is timed for when my body will have absorbed the collagen and is targeting it to where tendon and ligaments I stress during the routine).
~9:30 drive down the mountain from Flagstaff to a track in Cottonwood which is at about 3000ft of elevation. The lower elevation allows me to run my sea level race paces.
~10:30am Track workout: 2 mile warm up; 6 sets of 1000 at 10k pace followed by 600 at 5k pace. 200 meter jog between everything; 1.5 mile cool down.
~12:30 drive home and drink a recovery drink in the car
~1:30 lunch
Afternoon is spent reading, writing, snuggling Smokey, and sometimes attending virtual meetings (I am a board member for the USATF Pacific Foundation and write the copy for email correspondence, web etc.). Conley is a huge reader and has a few books on her reading list, such as A Promised Land by Barack Obama, The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson, and The Bean Trees by Barbara Kingsolver, a novel set in Tucson, Arizona, where her next sea level camp will take place.
Kim relaxing with a good book after an intense morning of training.
~5pm 3 mile easy shakeout run on turf fields at NAU
Second run of the day!
~7pm dinner
~8pm watch basketball, eat some chocolate, drink tea
~9pm light massage work, then bed
One of Conley’s favorite workouts that is getting her ready for the 2021 competitions: the steady-state run, which is running 8 miles at marathon pace (based on current fitness, not goal pace), then a month later progressing it to 10 miles at a slightly faster pace. Conley thinks that this workout is not as hard as doing 5k/10k pace on the track, but it definitely makes her feel really strong. On top of these tough and focused workouts, Conley runs twice a day about three to four times a week. She also does her strength training twice a week to be able to run strong and stay injury free.
And last, but not least, Conley has some great actionable mental, physical, and emotional advice for us mortals to have a brighter and better 2021.
Mental: Write your goals down and actively do something every day that is bringing you a step closer to achieving a goal.
Physical: Be proactive with your body’s health. Eat well and do strengthening exercises to keep your body able to handle the training load you desire.
Emotional: Talk about whatever you are feeling. We are living in hard times and don’t get the same levels of human connection that we are used to and need. “It helps me to tell other people when I’m sad that I’m not seeing them, or to know that others also miss seeing their loved ones.”
We wish Kim Conley to hopefully participate in the Tokyo Olympics this year and to put all her hard training to good use, competing at the highest level, representing the United States with pride. Happy feet, Kim, and thank you for inspiring the athlete and the human being in all of us.
To follow Kim Conley’s Olympic journey, feel free to connect with her on IG @kfconley, FB, Twitter, or check out her website www.kimfconley.com.
For more inspiration on how to let “AIR,” which stands for adaptation, inspiration, and resilience guide and uplift you during these uncertain and crazy times, please consider buying my print edition or e-book The PR- The Poetics of Running, A Book of Poetry in Motion on Amazon, or buy it straight from my blog by clicking on my books link, which will take you to Amazon. A portion of the proceeds from the sale of the book is going to Girls on the Run Sacramento chapter organization.
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Keep chasing the things in your heart, even in the midst of disappointment and uncertainty.” Sara Hall, second place finisher at London Marathon this year.
Bryn and I at the start of our London virtual marathon in Golden Gate Park.
Between the pandemic, uncertainty, and California’s devastating fires, our marathon training and the completion of London virtual marathon in San Francisco felt like an incessant fight with the same windmills that Don Quixote fought, and yet never lost hope of changing the world. We had to be creative and flexible about getting our long runs done during our training due to summer heat, but especially the fires and the bad air quality.
As we ran passed the Dutch windmill, I could not help thinking of Don Quixote, as if predicting the tough, hilly marathon ahead.
10 LIFE LESSONS LEARNED WHILE TRAINING FOR LONDON MARATHON
ADAPTATION – Dr. Dennis Godby with Sacramento Naturopathic Medical Center, said about me that I am “AIR,” which stands for adaptation, inspiration, and resilience. Dr. Godby is my naturopath doctor and an amazing human being. Talking about adaptation, we all know that being adaptable is a key survival quality that not only keeps us alive and well, but it also enhances our flexibility and turns us into nimble gymnasts, so to speak, who can tackle life’s challenges with more ease and comfort. For Bryn and I, training meant weekly changes and adaptations to our running schedule, routes, and workouts. We ended up doing many of our long runs in the middle of the week because of the fires.
Tough track workout on a Wednesday that turned into a 14-long run to avoid the weekend’s bad air quality.
2. INSPIRATION can work on many levels when someone dedicates time and attention to achieving a goal. Bryn and I documented our weekly runs and journey on social media, and, according to our coach and Arete team mates, we together with other team mates training for Boston marathon and other virtual races, became inspiring to our Arete competitive running team. We also inspired our children, our families, and co-workers due to our devotion to running and exercising.
3. RESILIENCE did not only apply to practicing grit, but it mainly meant rolling out with all life’s punches that came to us on a weekly basis up to the last day before running London virtual marathon, when mother nature gave us a weekend of smoke from the fires raging through Napa Valley. That’s when Bryn had the great idea to move our marathon to San Francisco, where the air index quality was at healthy levels.
After a smooth 1.5 hour drive drive to San Francisco, we reached Golden Gate Park. We easily found parking and bathrooms. We took a quick picture with our bibs on at the start line, and then we were off. During the first mile of our marathon Bryn said: “I could see a bright spot in the sky and thought the fog might burn off quickly, but was happy to have it for as long it would last. After a summer of training in the harsh Sacramento sun with early morning runs during which we raced against the rising temperatures, being enveloped in a blanket of cool fog with steady temps was soothing.”
In the first few miles, we were reminded of the hidden treasures in Golden Gate Park – the Conservatory of Flowers, Rainbow Falls, Spreckels Lake, the Bison Paddock, and the Dutch Windmill with a lovely “HOPE” flower display. After about five miles of smooth and controlled running, we hit Ocean Beach, ran up past the Cliff House and Sutro Baths and onto the rocky cliffs of the Coastal Trail. We then dipped back onto the roads past the Legion of Honor and Sea Cliff mansions to rejoin the trail in the Presidio.
I have never seen the bison in Golden Gate Park before, but maybe because I didn’t get to that side of the park. I snapped this picture while running and was delighted.
Hope never fails, so when the running got tough, Bryn and I kept on going.
“Running in the fog felt like home.” Bryn Mumma
Bryn enveloped in fog, running across the Golden Gate Bridge.
After we ran across the Golden Gate bridge twice, we had finished the first half of our marathon, but the hills kept coming, as we hit the stairs in reverse. By now there were many people on the trails, most of them wearing masks. I had slowed down by more than a minute per mile, but I kept moving forward, while Bryn navigated the hills with agility and looked like she was ready to run an ultramarathon, not just a marathon.
Hills, stairs, and a little knee pain, but what a scenic and incredible tour of the city!
“Running on a soft trail, overlooking the bluffs, up and down the hills, with the scent of eucalyptus in the air, was heaven.” Bryn Mumma
Returning to Golden Gate Park for our final few miles, we noticed that the park had come alive with children and families. We passed playgrounds and picnickers, as well as Stow Lake and the Botanical Gardens before reaching our 26.2-mile finish.
Throughout our marathon, Bryn couldn’t help but feeling like running in the fog was like coming home, because it was where her now-husband and her got engaged and married, while they both finished their studies to become doctors. Much of time in San Francisco was spent in the Sunset, running through Golden Gate Park to Ocean Beach.
For me, the highlight of the marathon were the windmills and the Pacific Ocean that made our extremely beautiful, scenic, but hard San Francisco marathon course with 1,730 feet elevation an adventure to remember. Bryn seemed to glide on all the hills, whereas I struggled with knee and calf pain, but continued my run and finished my 11th marathon, relishing the fog, the ocean waves crashing onto the shore, the Dutch Windmill, running across Golden Gate Bridge twice, the sight of a beautiful heron at the end of the race, and the wonderful time spent with my friend Bryn, who ran this marathon with ease and indelible joy.
Bryn finished the marathon ahead of me, as I struggled with pain from all the hills and possibly my thyroid acting up, but I mixed running with walking at the end and got it done. As I finished, I thought about our celebration picture, which, of course, was with the Dutch Windmill.
Bryn knew I wanted a picture with the windmill, so we drove close to it, parked, and captured the joy of completing our first virtual marathon with no spectators or aid stations.
I fought hard and ran my slowest marathon since I became a runner, but had defeated the windmills and have learned valuable lessons about life, such as:
4. POSITIVITY – Bryn and I tried to find a positive in every negative.
5. PERSEVERANCE – We constantly found ways to push each other on the track, or during a long run, and never gave up.
6. CREATIVITY – We had to constantly find ways around the pandemic, the weather, our busy schedules, and I even composed a rap song for our marathon.
7. DEDICATION – Without dedication, we can’t achieve much in life. Every single week, Bryn and I communicated with each other. We both set time aside for our speed workouts and long runs, which we did together and thus made our marathon cycle feel easier than usual, more enjoyable, and fun.
8. MOTIVATION – Once I convinced Bryn to do the London virtual marathon with me, both our motivation has increased, as we stayed focused and kept each other accountable.
9. FLEXIBILITY – With Bryn being an emergency physician and myself the CEO of my Dynamic Real Estate company, we both had a little more flexibility in our schedules, which proved to be quintessential to our successful and fun training schedule that I created for us mixing most of the workouts that Mary, our team’s coach provided part of the Chicago marathon training, with some of my own training, including weekly rest and strength training.
10. ENTHUSIASM –Ralph Waldo Emerson said: “Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm,” and Bryn and I had plenty of it. Chasing each other on the track was the highlight of our training, which made us run faster and stronger.
With races being canceled all around the world, now, more than ever, we have goals of becoming better human beings, helping others, lifting each other up, and just striving to be the best version of ourselves. Running goals are important, such as PRs, but the most important PR is what I call in my poetry book the pace and rhythm of life, which means being entuned with life, living in the now, and being grateful for every breath and stride we take on the trails of life.
For more inspiration on how to let “AIR,” which stands for adaptation, inspiration, and resilience guide and uplift you during these uncertain and crazy times, please consider buying my print edition or e-book The PR- The Poetics of Running, A Book of Poetry in Motion on Amazon, by clicking on the link. A portion of the proceeds from the sale of the book is going to Girls on the Run Sacramento chapter organization.
Let’s be honest: when every single race we were supposed to run this year (I was supposed to run Tokyo and London marathons) gets canceled due to the global Covid-19 pandemic, we get upset, frustrated, and even depressed when we feel that our training has gone to waste, even though we all know that our health and safety come first. Our inability to race this year seems unfathomable and surreal, as in previous years we have had way too many races to run and not enough time to properly train for all. And now that we cannot race, how about a shift in perspective? We have no races to run, or a very limited amount, mainly trails and small road races, but we finally have more time to train and to be intentional about the sport that brings us so much joy.
1. The Simplicity of Running
As some of you know, I became a runner in 2015 after having played soccer as a kid and competitive tennis for 20 years plus. However, as soon as I became a runner, I was hooked by its purity and simplicity. I didn’t have to plan my tennis matches by finding friends to play with. All I had to do is put my running shoes on and take off down the street from my house till I hit Ancil Hoffman Park, or what I call my slice of Paradise. What a simple way to experience the world as poetry in motion! What tremendous joy to let my feet take me places while feeling the gentle summer breeze against my neck, my arms that moved in perfect unison with the world, and my legs that, at first stomped around like a sumo wrestler, after which they learned to caress the ground and be gentle and quiet. Not only did I relish the simplicity of running and the tremendous joy that suffused my soul, but I also started writing poetry in my head and I continue to do so. I hope to publish my poetry book at the end of this year, so stay tuned.
Therefore, one way to deal with all the race cancelations is to go back to basics and to the simplicity of running by finding more time to relish our breath, stride, and euphoric feelings induced by running.
PC: Bryn Mumma, my friend and Arete team mate The simplicity of running, but not so much of doing hill repeats- ha!ha!
2. Gratitude
In 2018 when my husband and I finished building our home, I threw a big party for the runners in the Sacramento community. Lisa Limcaco, one of my runner friends, brought a housewarming gift, a small decoration piece that said gratitude on it. She told me: “You always say how grateful you are in your posts, so I thought this would make the perfect gift.” I was grateful to Lisa for being so thoughtful, as well as thinking of me as someone who lives life with gratitude, as I never want to come across as ungrateful or entitled. To me, life is a constant opportunity to practice gratitude, not only during good times, but especially during hard and nebulous times. As Deena Kastor, who is the American record holder in the marathon, said in our Zoom meeting with my Arete team mates: “We need to practice gratitude, patience, and solution seeking.” Optimism, she added, helps us put the bad days in perspective quickly. And if you wish to become a more grateful and joyous runner, according to Kastor, then write three things you are grateful for every evening and you cannot repeat what you wrote the previous day. I also highly recommend reading Deena Kastor’s memoir memoir Let your Mind Run, which will transform your relationship to running and to the world around you.
Due to the precarious stage we are in with this pandemic, I feel gratitude can propel us forward, as well as make us more appreciative of our strong runner bodies and lungs. The fact that we are healthy and that we can run while others are fighting for their lives in hospitals, with some of them not making it, should give us the strongest dose of gratitude ever and dissipate any complaints about races being canceled. Racing will return one day and we will be even more grateful to run next to our friends and competitors, but for now we all need to find joy and gratitude for being alive and able to run.
Grateful to run faster even though I have no races in sight.
3. The Joy of Running
To me, running is pure joy as sweet and gooey as honey pouring down my soul every time I lace up my shoes to go on a run, solo or with friends, but in these times more solo. During our quarantine in March, I ran solo around my neighborhood for two months, missing my friends, but knowing that I had to do my part in flattening the curve of this contagious virus. I kept running through Ancil Hoffman Park and all the hills around my neighborhood, writing poetry in my head and composing a few rap songs. I started to relish the tranquility of my morning runs and found joy in my solitary running, because that was the only known constant in my life and it made me happy to be out in the fresh air, while social distancing. Not only does running make me elated and more content with life, but it also adds inner peace and the realization that we already have everything we need inside our souls to be joyous, as I expressed in this poem I wrote.
Jumping with joy during a solo run
Jumping with Joy
When I run around Ancil Hoffman Park,
my
magic place and slice of Paradise
where
I first became a runner
I sometimes
stop running
and
simply jump with joy
as my
way to greet the day
on
the trail.
To
salute the sun
and
kick up my heels
towards
the Heavens.
4. Health and Nutrition
We all know that when we eat healthy and focus on eating more fruit and vegetables together with high quality protein, such as wild-caught salmon, organic chicken, and less processed foods, we have a better chance to beat Covid-19 and stay healthy, besides running stronger. One thing we can really do while not having to rush from one race to another is to focus on our minds and bodies by eating healthy and clean, avoiding processed foods, and paying attention to what our bodies need, especially when we demand so much from them when we run an average of 40 to 50 miles a week.
As our focus is to stay healthy and not catch this virus, nutrition plays a big role in our overall health, as studies show that runners cannot outrun a bad diet.
In my case, at the beginning of the year when running didn’t feel great, I had to reevaluate my vegan diet and decided that it was too restrictive and not giving me all the vitamins and protein that my body needed. Test results showed I had various vitamin and protein deficiencies, so I decided to adopt more of a plant-based diet and after adding wild-caught salmon and some bison meat, my iron levels have improved and my running has never been stronger. The moral of the story is that we all have different bodies and nutritional needs that are different for women and men and that having many bad runs can mean that our body needs more vitamins and nutrients, which is why checking our iron levels and thyroid is key for runners.
5. Freedom
The fact that most races have been canceled left us with sadness that we cannot run together and compete against one another, but it also gave us more freedom to work on our speed, endurance, or just to run for the joy of running. When not preparing for races, we can devote more time on proper rest and recovery, cross training (I have biked and done more strength training), and just rediscovering the main reason why we run, which is the ultimate freedom, as we stride through time and space. As a sports enthusiast, I have never felt as free as when I run, because running allows us to move freely and to be ourselves. Running is thus the ultimate form of simplicity, gratitude, joy, health, and freedom, and until we race again safely, let’s all hold these truths close to our hearts, because in the end, it will be worth it and we will come out stronger, kinder, and maybe even faster. And last, but not least, let’s wear our masks and show others that freedom also means caring deeply about one another and doing our part to protect our fragile planet.
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